Parents Influence In Kids Lifes.

Throughout the ages parents have had an impact on their childís education and learning
ability. It is strange for a child to succeed and accomplish a goal that requires 12- 16
years of school without there parents or guardians standing next to them to support them
with there studies. But will they put a negative or a positive impact on the way they
educate their child.

A parent can have a positive contribution to their childrenís success if the child
understands what the parent is trying address. A most successful way for a child to learn
is for the parents to establish an environment which a child feels more comfortable
studying in. A parent should be more involved in their childís education and should be
more aware on how he/she are doing in school, that will give them an idea on how the
child is performing in their studies therefore a parent can help them in their weaknesses.

Parents should well inform their kids how important a school education really is
therefore their children are better prepared than other students in their school.

On the other hand a childís dream can go down the drain when a parent does not put
much importance in their education. It is also hard for a child to learn and to concentrate
when a parent is putting to much pressure on them. With parents demand so high
sometimes, children can feel a big effect on the pushing and pulling of their parents for
schooling and it will affect their performance in school. Sometimes kids need to spend
more time with their parents than with others, In my case, I didnít need as much attention
as other people would of appreciated. In the Amy Tan essay a young Chinese American
girl grew up living with a non-fluent mother and beat all odds and became a journalist. It
doesnít necessarily mean that if you live in a household which English isnít the primary
language that you wont succeed and it doesnít mean that you will succeed either, its all
up to the child if he/she is willing to try.

Examples vary in different ethnicityís. In my family, I had support in both sides of my
family my mother and father they both have been a big reason of my success today. A
parent can teach a child to a certain point but its up to the child if he/she wants to
comprehend. In different cases sometimes the odds can go better of because then it
makes you try harder and to strive for your goal.